Value as Love・ Love and Marriage6

Then respect as mind function has some essence of a sadism to abandon easily the partner to betray our anticipation as an insurance because it originates a mind of decision stands on a fairness to kill the favor.
But it's different from its fact and essence of moving mind made in a reading of Les Misérables with an essence of ourselves not to pardon a theft but to move in front of the circumstance of Jean Valjean with a sympathy, despite of that to a person with no sympathy but also with no discrimination, we don't take any rescue and attitude to join him or her, and sheltering him or her from his or her passion. We never have a will to help him or her.
Because it's difference to that in the case of the essence of moving emotion to heroes and heroines has a root of empathy just because the case of fictitious characters, if those cases has been adopted to the real, we take an attitude to the persons applicable to heroes and heroines a coldly. And in moving a dramas we're aware those mentality. And even in the case not dramas but nonfiction novels, the moving sympathy toward described contents on the real happening matters, the choice of an action of ourselves and moving emotions separates each other, no so, more separated those has a result to make us to move toward , namely we move the matter as we cannot help and rescue from a trouble or passion knowing a disability to do so. Namely moving emotion holds an essence to includes a coldness of our minds and cruelty to all sufferers. When we can move with our watching to the dramas, we don't exclude that separation, but at the case of real love or affection, at least making the exception of separating or divorcing as an action choice, we ought to try to find out a compromise possibility to two things of a favor and an evaluation.