Chapter26Value as Personality is Based on Realization made between Self and Others／Rewriting Memory Relies on Preceding Solidification of Personality3

Of course we can say that love creates also hatred. Instinctively someone can evade holding hatred, probably he would be a good personality. But if he or she is so, one can evade harm originates in hatred with one’s wisdom, he or she wouldn’t be always affectionate. Of course good affectionate one can exist, if he or she shows affection, essentially one can be affectionate, he or she would be jealous too, then disappointment of anger would be bigger, inversely affectionate one can be awkward to evade risky situation generally, despite of it, being skilful to evade risks makes someone be a calculating person. But it is not so generalized truth.
Namely distortion to formal memory content or justification to misremember is caused from obedient mind to authority.
Then some decisive mind in hesitation which we should take to be continuous keeping company with someone or to cede its relation relies on trust to someone or affectionate emotion to him or her in assessing personality. Namely it’s cognition of human-relationship assessment and a decision.
Thereby we experience to get to be in rage according to grade of trust in meeting someone’s action and getting disillusioned, originally hatred robs us of our energy, the decision not to be enthusiastic to change a feeling into anger regarding it as not valuable with cool gaze. Its decision has an idea that to be to trustful isn’t profitable, we can say so, but at the same time of it, even the great personality would be conceited, we can be aware of it, and its decision has that meaning.
What I said now is so important. Because we often forget necessary truth, a dinky it discovered by us accidentally is regarded as so important by us, and we persist in it and after a few while, we get to be aware again of after all truth exists in another place. And still we are apt to hold blind trust to favorite persons and thereby we hate them after loving so much easily. But even if our anticipation is betrayed by them, holding detachment is the best cognition for all of us, because we aren’t be perfect entity and we mustn’t forget it