Chapter26Value as Personality is Based on Realization made between Self and Others／Rewriting Memory Relies on Preceding Solidification of Personality2

But the decision not to make much of capricious action or performative declaration or action is at one meaning that we wink at a gap between action fact and real personality, in revel of perception surely we can regard it as positive abolishing. Namely for keeping unified personality we don’t doubt our capacity to rewrite memory as abolishing trivial things. It is very little evil as we try to call it a necessity evil. If its wisdom is eliminated, we would be in a trouble at our usual living. Why we do so is caused from that we need to see our habit as fundamentally object for keeping personality not minute assessment in the both meaning of toward myself, toward others It can be called a decision to assess personality in trust of human relation as social living. Namely we are not always composing others’ images along the reality, rather we often regard others’ shyness or hesitating attitude as bad will, necessarily we often misjudge others’ images as assessment.
Namely a person of threatening attitude is often one feels delicately not so evaluated or assessed as not so good talented or characterized as not so good from threatened one in fear to threatened one. Paraphrasing it unexpectedly other person we have a gap feeling to him or her could be analogous to ourselves. Therefore we are said to get mutual trust to others generally, not careful to dinky mistakes by others or caprice by others taking an important action object
Then to a person to take so impolite attitude to ourselves saying that once upon a time he or she was so good character person, if he or she is old, he or she gets to be older, judging so, we often assess him or her as senile dementia.
Therefore after seeing his or her changing, we can rely only on how we could love or being generous to him or her from that time on. Then a reason to say that personality as value is based on mutual realization between other person is that personality is the thing to be made by mutual love among mutual human-beings. Rewriting of memory is said to be a decision by love to repair dinky mistake or caprice by other person with cultivation of personality.